Stories of Hope

To better understand the impact of bone marrow failure, we present stories told by the patients, parents, family members, and spouses who are living with these illnesses. Our entire community benefits from the insightful stories patients and family members share with us about their personal journeys.

Retired MDS Patient Living Life to the Fullest Since Transplant

I retired from Dun & Bradstreet, after 35 years of working all over the US and Europe as a business analyst and Vice President of Operations and Data Acquisition. I was living the life I had always aspired to -- traveling, volunteering for a number of non-profit organizations, taking the occasional consulting job, enjoying a few classes at the local college, and just having fun. Then, in August 2009, I had a blood test and it showed something was off with my white and red blood cells. I had a repeat blood test in September and it improved slightly, but my doctor still wanted me to see a…

Long-term survivor and dedicated volunteer

2015 will mark the 17th anniversary of my victory over myelodysplastic syndrome (MDS). An unrelated-donor bone marrow transplant saved my life and cured me of the disease in 1998. I was originally diagnosed with aplastic anemia, in 1996, when a routine checkup showed that my blood counts were at life-threateningly low levels. I was treated with the immunosuppressant called ATG and experienced some improvement, but could never get back to normal blood counts. Eventually I was found to have chromosomal abnormalities and I was re-diagnosed with MDS at age 43. In 1998 my only options were

Inspiring young survivors

Christopher Nein recently earned his fourth AA&MDSIF Scholarship award. The aplastic anemia survivor is attending Eastern Virginia Medical School in Norfolk, Virginia and was recently married. As part of his application for the 2012 scholarship program, Chris wrote the following personal letter to all children and youth currently struggling with bone marrow failure diseases. In Chistopher's own words: Friend and fellow fighter: Most twenty-two year olds do not have vivid memories from when they were only two years old. I, like you, am no typical twenty-two year old. When I was just…

Eric Hodies – A Study in Attitude and Self-Advocacy

The Diagnosis In 2002, 41-year-old Eric Hodies was a devoted triathlete, training for his 21 st Virginia Beach Sandman Triathlon. He had competed in the event every year since its inception, and he was looking forward to another great race. But in the months leading up to the event, he noticed that he was getting slower and slower, despite the fact that he was increasing the intensity of his workouts. Ever attune to the signals his body was sending him, he went to a doctor. He was initially diagnosed with asthma, but further tests revealed that it was aplastic anemia. “My workouts saved my

Mother Tells How Son’s Aplastic Anemia Impacted Entire Family

A horrifying diagnosis Barbara Manley found herself living every parent’s nightmare the night her two-year-old son, David, was admitted to the hospital for increasingly serious bruising. “The doctor said it’s either aplastic anemia or leukemia, and you’d better pray for leukemia. I knew leukemia was bad, so that was horrifying.” By the time of his diagnosis of aplastic anemia in January, 2002, David was dangerously close to spontaneous hemorrhaging. A blood transfusion provided some temporary respite while the family decided what to do. Faced with an illness she had never heard of before

Mary Miller: Beyond Watch and Wait - A Mind, Body, Spirit Approach to Living with MDS

In 2005 at age 70, Mary Miller of Doylestown, Pennsylvania was diagnosed with MDS. Now 77, she says of her diagnosis, “My initial reaction was that I had never heard of it, so I looked it up online and scared myself half to death!” Like many MDS patients, the first indication there may be a problem came from experiencing significant fatigue. “I was tired and cold all the time, and my hair began falling out. At first, my primary care physician thought the problem was low thyroid and prescribed medication. However, additional blood work showed an anemia that could not be treated with B-12 or

Kyle Malmstrom – Saved by Identical Twin, Young Aplastic Anemia Survivor Literally Brings Comfort to Others

Written by Kimberly Malmstrom Our son, Kyle, was a normal active 11-year-old who enjoyed climbing trees, swimming, and running. He loved to run around and play with his friends. The first week of school last fall was normal for Kyle. He was excited to see friends and meet his new sixth grade teachers. However, throughout that week, he developed large bruises. Some had known causes - others did not. Kyle then noticed purple dots (petechiae) on his legs. By Saturday of Labor Day weekend he was covered with the dots. Our pediatrician said we should take him directly to the emergency room at…

Luke Gane, Aplastic Anemia Survivor and UCLA Bruin

At the time, Luke Gane considered himself a typical sophomore. It was July 2008, and Luke was getting ready for the all-important junior year of high school football season. He had his wisdom teeth removed and afterwards, found himself spitting up blood. It was chalked up to a side-effect of the surgery. Little did Luke know, his health was in jeopardy. In the days ahead, Luke became fatigued; shortly thereafter, a 2-hour nose bleed turned into a trip to the emergency room. After a series of blood work and a bone marrow biopsy, Gane was diagnosed with aplastic anemia. Aplastic anemia is a…

Norma Good’s Life as an MDS Survivor: From Diagnosis to Remission

A grim prognosis In 1989, all three of Norma Good’s blood counts were found to be abnormally low. The hematologist in her home town admitted to not knowing how to handle her rare bone marrow failure condition, so he referred to her to a local clinic which didn’t offer much hope for survival. Not easily deterred, Norma sought out a clinical trial at the National Institutes of Health (NIH) in Bethesda, Maryland. “The NIH is wonderful,” she says. “They’re doing their best to combat these diseases, and they’re making improvements all the time. We need to encourage people to realize how much…

Feeling at home in the muddy water

"May we live like the lotus, at home in the muddy water.” Judith H. Lasater, PhD In 2003, I had no idea who Judith Lasater was, and I was not at all at home in the “muddy water.” I was a 5th grade teacher, I was hoping to start a family with my husband, and I had plans that in no way involved having a bone marrow failure disease. And yet, in September that year, a series of doctor appointments led me to Georgetown University Hospital in Washington, DC and to the National Institutes of Health (NIH) in Bethesda, MD where I had bone marrow biopsies that confirmed a diagnosis of severe aplastic…

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